NOT EVERYTHING IS RIGHT HERE, BUT GENERALLY THAT'S WHAT I SENSE. You can decide what ever you want...
We have >IMPRINTED< in our head the "ideal" person. The prefect symmetry, the prefect colours, the size, certain traits, weight, Etc. The >PERFECT< person.
It is possible to "love" the ideal person. BUT stray away from the "ideal" person, and you no longer have the same attraction as before. But the person is just as good as the "less attractive" person. BUT it is >JUST< mathematics guiding our brains.
ATTRACTION = MATHEMATICS, >on the physical side<. Very attractive people GET TO LEARN >N O T H I N G< on that level, without ever learning about stuff. You life is empty (on the physical side, at least).
Now if the person has a trauma or others issues with "beauty", that will make them run to the other side (or run to the other gender, because he/she is way to far away from reality so they switch). There sense of the "beauty" is not necessary good either. They can't stand people who have stuff going their way because of their looks either.
Its all in the brain that changes what we want to see in a person. It has everything to do with perception on thing that happens DEEP DEEP DEEP inside. We don't like it, so we change it.
Why is it that our brains dictate what we like and what we don't like (just appearance here)? Our "BRAINS" make us take the >WRONG< decisions. Just for >BEAUTY<.
And this is VERY DAMAGING to the brain (yes its true just look at the Doctors page), cause our brains can be changed by the >WRONG< foods we've been eating for a LONG TIME. We eat >CHEMICALS[!!!]< for a LONG TIME, and just look at what we have to deal with.
If you ask me I think it has to do with the chemicals ingested during pregnancy. Not the mother's fault. The food is >PACKED< with chemicals.
Just look at the eyes of the person. You will see that the eyes of the person is EXACTLY 50% male/female. You cannot tell the gender. The body did not not know what to >choose<. And if you look at the chemicals in there (and I will not name them it would be ridiculous. Look at the names they give them! And the QUANTITIES!!!). The stuff they put in it is >CRAZY<!
So I really think that is the problem. But hey, I just have a Sec 5 Diploma, so...
The girl explains that her body changed and didn't respond to the "androgen's". Its where the term "Androgen Insensitivity ""Syndrome"" " comes from.
If you click on this: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=hermaphrodite . You'll notice that there are tons of hermaphrodites out there!
If we grow up to be the "perfect" ideal person, we will be >SET BACK< in learning about life. A person that is beautiful doesn't have to learn about things except when he/she starts getting old, wrinkles start getting bigger and bigger, arms get saggier, butte loosing shape, etc etc etc. And you enter the "Golden Age" with >NOTHING< learned. C'est pittoyable!
The people who are the "best looking" to others are the people which are "stuck" with their beauty.
Also, a person who is beautiful on the outside will generally have a better opportunity in getting a job (depending on the position[!]). If you don't believe me, take this example:
A man has an opening for a job. He is at the point where he must take a decision between candidates. They >ALL HAVE EXACTLY THE SAME COMPETENCE< for the job. Who do you think the man will decide to hire? On a scale of 1 to 5... They all have the rating of "1", except a single woman who has a rating of "5". Who do you think he will hire?
Some exceptions will occur, but in >GENERAL< the person with better looks will have (with some exception) the job. The person will have >remembered< her. The brain makes the >BETTER CHOICE< for us. Not the >RIGHT CHOICE!!!<